25 Ways Muslim Husbands Ruin Their Own Marriage | Ustadh Abdulrahman Hassan #AMAU

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It doesn’t always look like “mistreating” your wife. Sometimes it’s cutting her off mid-sentence because you think you know what she’ll say, or scrolling through your phone while she’s telling you about her day, or brushing off her feelings with “you’re overreacting”.

Little by little, these moments chip away at trust, affection, and respect until your wife feels unseen in her own home.

In this video, Ustadh Abdulrahman Hassan shares 25 major mistakes Muslim men make: the kinds of actions and habits that lead to failed marriages, constant conflict, or homes with no real happiness.

He highlights what the Qur’an and Sunnah teach about a husband’s role, how the Prophet ﷺ treated his wives, and the practical steps every Muslim man can take to bring back mercy and love into his marriage.

Whether you’re preparing for marriage or already a husband, this is advice you won’t get in casual talks, but it could save your marriage from quiet collapse.

Timestamps:
00:00 Precap & Introduction
04:18 Dealing With the Mother vs. Wife Conflict
08:55 Unnecessarily Doubting One’s Wife
10:16 Having Poor Protective Jealousy
14:19 Belittling the Wife
18:38 Misusing One’s Leadership
22:50 Letting the Wife Work
24:37 Neglecting the Wife’s Islamic Education
26:44 Being Stingy
29:26 Not Informing of One’s Arrival
31:13 Excessively Criticising the Wife
35:02 Not Praising the Wife for Her Good
37:29 Debating Constantly
40:14 Prolonging Boycotts
42:20 Spending Little Time With Family
44:06 Bad Dealings With the Wife
46:21 Not Dressing Up Properly
47:48 Disregarding Making Du’a
49:44 Not Observing Intimacy
52:04 Not Keeping Secrets
53:17 Being Inconsiderate During Her Menses
55:20 Beating One’s Wife
56:46 Hastening Towards Divorce
57:38 Imposing Blame After Divorce
58:19 Forsaking the Children
59:36 Not Fulfilling Promises
01:00:02 Never Content With the Wife

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